Women...don't be THAT woman. That woman who won't let go of her ex even when it's clear this guy is not into you, he's your ex for a reason. You are better than that. You're not with him, and hounding him just makes you look crazy. It makes you look unstable. I get it, you love him, or rather you think you love him.
I've had two instances in my dating life of meeting men, dating them and then a while into their ex somehow finds a way to contact me (one through text and the other through Facebook) to berate me about being with their man. Listen, your man was on a dating site, you're his ex, calling me a fat whore won't solve the problems you have with him. I'm not your punching bag, I value myself way more than you apparently value yourself.
I woke up to a text message from one of these women where she used her ex's phone to berate him (calling him a loser, etc) and calling me names because he was once with me.
Women like that make well-adjusted women look bad to men. You need to place more value on yourself and move on and away from the men that aren't into you.
